An adolescent's peers may tell you something about their inner life.
“You Have to Be Perfect.” And Other Adoption Myths
Sometimes it's not just those unfamiliar with adoption who are misinformed.
Your First Meeting with an Expectant Mother
For prospective adoptive parents hoping to meet an expectant mother, few situations are more anxiety-inducing than their first encounter. Whether you plan to meet in person or over the phone, knowing ahead of time what questions to ask-and not ask-can reduce your anxiety and help you make the most of this opportunity to obtain information.
Confronting Stereotypes and Prejudice About Adoption
"Adopted Teen Arrested," the newspaper headline reads (never "Birth Teen Arrested"). Is this just another example of sensationalism by the media or do adopted teens get into more trouble than their non-adopted peers?
“Sometime in the Night”
In this personal essay, a single dad shares the story of the night he met his daughter in China.
“Ode to Joy”
A simple radio broadcast can bring up my worries for my daughter's future, and my fears as an older parent.
Letters to Birth Mothers, from Wondering Hearts
Distance doesn't eliminate a desire to communicate with the birth mothers that children imagine, as these letters demonstrate.
How to Lobby Your Employer for Adoption Benefits
For working people who want to adopt, the need to take time off without pay may put adoption beyond your financial means.
Why You Need Your Child’s Medical History
A little information about your child's medical history goes a long way for finding and preventing risks.
Talking with Children about Adoption
Is it what you say, how early you say it, or how often you say it that matters most to your child? Barbara Russell gives tips on talking about adoption with your child.
Interviewing Potential Birth Mothers
What to ask — and what not to ask — a potential birth mother in your first encounter.
“You Are Me — A Letter to My Son”
After four years of infertility, I was finally ready to entertain alternatives to producing a mirror image.
Finding an Adoption Therapist
Sometimes, talking isn't enough. Kids might need additional help. Use these tips for finding an adoption therapist, and knowing when you need one.
“Thanking My Adoption Support Network”
One mother says the thank you's we sometimes forget to say.
No More Bedtime Battles
The safety and predictability of a regular evening routine can end go-to-sleep struggles with your preschooler.
Easing an Older Child’s Adjustment
The transition from foster care to forever family can be difficult on a child. Use these strategies when bringing home an older child.
[Book Review] Mommy Far, Mommy Near
Mommy Far, Mommy Near-An Adoption Story, by Carol Antoinette Peacock, is exceptional. I really loved the fact that the story is told by a child to other children-the book's readers.
[Book Review] Bud, Not Buddy
This Newberry Award winning book features a foster child in search of his father.