"Sole Purpose"

In this personal essay, one mother shares how her daughter's love of shoes led to a conversation about race and adoption.

raising a child of a different race

When we stepped into the next parking lot, she took my hand again. “It’s good we’re wearing our shoes,” she said. “We match. That way, people know we belong together.”


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