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Help your child sleep through the night while promoting her attachment to you.
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Essential baby care and bonding tips to help your newly adopted child — and yourself — connect and thrive.
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A little information about your child's medical history goes a long way for finding and preventing risks.
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Our children learn from us how to express emotions.
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Imaginative play can bring your preschooler hours of fun — and offer a window into her adoption story.
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Preschoolers are starting to notice racial differences. Adoptive parents have a responsibility to talk about them.
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Tween adoptees may walk away from their cultural heritage, family outings, and even their family as they try to fit in with peers.
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Your preteen just wants to be cool. But how can he, when he's "different"?
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Reassure your child that you are his parent, forever and always.
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Can't pry your teen from the computer? The Internet can be a great tool for finding identity and networking with other adopted teens.
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Sometimes, a teen's behavior calls for outside help. What to watch for and how to find the right adoption therapist.
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Adolescence is tough, but don't worry: our adopted kids' experiences will usually fall well within the bounds of typical teen development.
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From a woman who finally became an adoptive mother after a decade of trying, here are a few things I wish someone had told me years ago.
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When you bring your child for their first post-adoption check-up, what should the doctor be looking for?
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What costs should you be prepared for in a domestic adoption? Our legal expert explains.
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From a woman who finally became an adoptive mother after a decade of trying, here are a few things I wish someone had told me years ago.
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When I announced our adoption plans, I hoped for the same kind of excitement that pregnant women get. After all, the happiness we're expecting is the same.
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On our Facebook page, we asked readers, How did you choose your child's name? Did you have input from his birth family? Or did you keep her original name? Here's what you said:
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Dana E. Johnson, M.D., Ph.D., on introducing new foods and addressing feeding challenges in a newly adopted child.
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What do you call the day your adoptive child came home? In this personal essay, one mother explains why "Gotcha Day" can be offensive for some adoptees.
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On our Facebook page, we asked readers, How did you choose your child's name? Did you have input from his birth family? Or did you keep her original name? Here's what you said:
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Nia Vardalos describes her first meeting with the preschooler she adopted from U.S. foster care.
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Nia Vardalos describes her first meeting with the preschooler she adopted from U.S. foster care.
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My daughter's tenth birthday was the first birthday party she'd ever had. Here's how and why we decided to redo all the others.
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Would it really be possible to fill out my daughter’s hazy memories by typing names into a search engine?
Two adoptive moms and a birth mother candidly discuss the adoption match, birth siblings, contact agreements, and more.
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I asked my family not to come to the hospital when she was born, then mourned their absence. Enter her birth relatives.
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If breastfeeding had been easy in the past, adoptive breastfeeding couldn't be so different, or less rewarding, could it? More or less.
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Dana E. Johnson, M.D., Ph.D., on introducing new foods and addressing feeding challenges in a newly adopted child.
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Introductions are often fleeting. But then there are those planned meetings that you know will touch you at your core.
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How to assess a newly adopted child's nutritional status and get a malnourished child's growth on track.
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Your child's adoption story is a tale you'll want to tell over and over. Why not put words (and pictures) to paper? Follow these pointers to create a personalized picture book that's guaranteed to become your child's favorite bedtime read.
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Your child's adoption story is a tale you'll want to tell over and over. Why not put words (and pictures) to paper? Follow these pointers to create a personalized picture book that's guaranteed to become your child's favorite bedtime read.
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If you look like your child, you may be spared inquisitive glances or nosy questions about adoption from strangers. But that doesn't mean you don't have to discuss the topic.
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Family members, friends, and other parents can use our adoption experiences to broaden their children’s sphere of understanding.
As your teen's thinking becomes more sophisticated, she'll want to know more about her adoption.
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We’ve been selected by a birth mom who is due in two months. Our attorney advised us to draw up a contact agreement prior to the birth. What should we include?
Would it really be possible to fill out my daughter’s hazy memories by typing names into a search engine?
We’ve been selected by a birth mom who is due in two months. Our attorney advised us to draw up a contact agreement prior to the birth. What should we include?
My daughter, Rubie, has the kind of life I'd dreamed of for her, and is where she belongs. I only wish I had known that sooner.
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Why do our darker-skinned children receive attention and flattery from strangers — and what are we to do about it?
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Why do our darker-skinned children receive attention and flattery from strangers — and what are we to do about it?
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How we can help our children feel good about who they are — and where they’re from.
30 years later: A special report on the Korean adoptee experience
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A dermatologist advises on caring for the skin and hair of a transracially adopted child.
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When your family includes biological and adopted children, how do you make sure everyone feels included?
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17 simple and effective ways to bring adoption into the classroom.
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Your preteen just wants to be cool. But how can he, when he's "different"?
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How one mother learns to be the role model her adoptive daughter needs–with her daughter's help, of course.
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When this big, multicultural family gets together for Thanksgiving, the table is laden with more than turkey and gravy.
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