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Real Adoption Stories
GROWING UP ADOPTED
Infants
Questioning Medical Myths About Adoption
Nourishing Beyond Growth Charts
How to assess a newly adopted child's nutritional status and get a malnourished child's growth on track.
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When Birth Moms Get the Blues
It may take some time for your child's birth mother to work through her grief. But there are ways you can help.
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Preschoolers
What Preschoolers Can Understand About Adoption
When your preschooler asks questions about adoption, use these age-appropriate answers that emphasize your family's love.
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Helping Preschoolers Understand Adoption
Through normal, imaginary play, children in the preschool years can conquer their fears, conjure their birth mothers, and learn to understand their stories.
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Adoption Goes to Preschool
Sometimes, a behind-the-scenes talk with the teacher better serves your child than a class presentation.
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School Kids
Child-Created Lifebooks
Even if you've made a scrapbook or lifebook for your child, kids this age like to tell their own stories. Here's how to help.
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Adapting School Assignments
Some school assignments ask for details that make our kids feel uneasy. But you — and your child's teacher — can help.
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Preparing for Questions About Adoption at School
Before first grade, parents need to teach kids how to respond to unwelcome comments about adoption at school.
Teens
When Teens Find Birth Family Online
Got a Web-savvy teen on your hands? Here's how to set safety guidelines for online birth family contact.
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Responding to “My Real Mom Would Let Me!”
When they're angry at us, teens may bring up the subject of birth parents. Here's how to answer calmly.
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Teens and Open Adoption
As teens seek independence, they rethink their relationships with all the adults in their lives — including birth parents.
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Adopting
“And Now We Are Three”
Mix one American couple, one preteen Russian boy, and one summer program...and what do you get? Family.
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18 Key Questions to Ask a Surrogacy Program
“If the carrier has a pregnancy loss, what are our financial obligations?” Questions to ask before selecting the right donor embryo program.
Can We Afford This? Adoption Costs vs. Surrogacy Costs
Check out the average cost ranges for donor egg, donor embryo, and surrogacy, and see how they compare to adoption.
“And Now We Are Three”
Mix one American couple, one preteen Russian boy, and one summer program...and what do you get? Family.
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The Truth About Domestic Adoption
Domestic adoption in the United States has undergone a seismic shift in the last 30 years. When will popular perceptions catch up with the new, healthier reality?
Adopting from Foster Care
Answers to frequently asked questions on how to adopt from the U.S. foster system.
“And Now We Are Three”
Mix one American couple, one preteen Russian boy, and one summer program...and what do you get? Family.
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Bonding
“And Now We Are Three”
Mix one American couple, one preteen Russian boy, and one summer program...and what do you get? Family.
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Ask the Doctor: How Do I Feed My Newborn?
Everything you need to know about bonding with and nourishing your child during feeding times, from an adoption medicine expert.
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“Re-Celebrating My Daughter’s First Nine Birthdays”
My daughter's tenth birthday was the first birthday party she'd ever had. Here's how and why we decided to redo all the others.
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“And Now We Are Three”
Mix one American couple, one preteen Russian boy, and one summer program...and what do you get? Family.
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“Re-Celebrating My Daughter’s First Nine Birthdays”
My daughter's tenth birthday was the first birthday party she'd ever had. Here's how and why we decided to redo all the others.
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ADVICE & SUPPORT
Foster Adoption
Adopting from Foster Care
Answers to frequently asked questions on how to adopt from the U.S. foster system.
Ask AF: Defining Special Needs
Are all children from foster care considered “special needs,” and, therefore, eligible for the full adoption tax credit?
“Instant Mom”
Nia Vardalos describes her first meeting with the preschooler she adopted from U.S. foster care.
Domestic
The Truth About Domestic Adoption
Domestic adoption in the United States has undergone a seismic shift in the last 30 years. When will popular perceptions catch up with the new, healthier reality?
Domestic Adoption Travel 101
Tips for — and from — domestic adoptive parents on preparing for the emotional journey to meet your child.
Adoption Law: At the Hospital
An adoption attorney explains the legal steps surrounding your child’s birth when you adopt domestically.
International
“And Now We Are Three”
Mix one American couple, one preteen Russian boy, and one summer program...and what do you get? Family.
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“You’ve Got to Have Friends”
My daughter’s fascination with China was matched by her pleasure at sharing the return trip with friends who’d made the same journey.
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News Briefs: Intercountry Adoption Updates, August 2016
Intercountry adoption laws are updated frequently. Learn about recent changes in Uganda, Romania, Haiti, and Ethiopia.
Talking
[Book Review] The Red Blanket
On the crowded shelf of children's books about adoption from China, don't overlook The Red Blanket, a book by Eliza Thomas, with irresistible illustrations by Joe Cepeda.
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Child-Created Lifebooks
Even if you've made a scrapbook or lifebook for your child, kids this age like to tell their own stories. Here's how to help.
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[Book Review] The Red Blanket
On the crowded shelf of children's books about adoption from China, don't overlook The Red Blanket, a book by Eliza Thomas, with irresistible illustrations by Joe Cepeda.
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Listen to the Musical Beat of Love
Musicians—from folk singers to rappers—are tuning in to adoption to create deeply personal reflections and hummable melodies. These songs are what you need when words aren't enough.
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Sharing Difficult Details with Your Child
Experts offer talking tips and sample language for discussing neglect, abuse, abandonment, and other painful parts of your child's adoption story.
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Transracial
“You’ve Got to Have Friends”
My daughter’s fascination with China was matched by her pleasure at sharing the return trip with friends who’d made the same journey.
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“My Decision to Adopt Transracially”
I thought. I researched. I talked. But in the end, it took a leap of faith to adopt across racial lines.
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“You’ve Got to Have Friends”
My daughter’s fascination with China was matched by her pleasure at sharing the return trip with friends who’d made the same journey.
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Raising Black Children to Become Black Adults
An adult adoptee discusses 'the Talk'—what white parents who adopt Black children must tell them about racism, interacting with the police, and staying safe.
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Health & Development
News Brief: Higher Rates of Adoption Documented in Transgender Youth
Doctors at a gender management clinic have found that 8.2 percent of the 184 transgender youth they’ve seen between 2007 and 2015 were adopted. The overall rate in their state is 2.3 percent.
Family Dynamics
“Is Blood Really Thicker Than Water?”
I could have merely been her stepmother, but Taylor and I chose to love each other. Not even adolescence can take that away from us.
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School
Ask AF: “Was I Bad?”
Our eight-year-old has been telling his classmates that his birth mother “gave him up” because he was “bad.”
Peers & Friendships
Ask the Transracial Parenting Expert: Helping Teens Answer Questions About Race
"Last week, my teenage son told me that he was tired of having to explain himself wherever he goes. Why is this happening, and how can I help him?"
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Modern Families
News Brief: LGBT Parents Very Open to Openness
A new study by The Donaldson Adoption Institute found that LGBT families are highly motivated to maintain openness and birth family contact.
Holidays & Celebrations
“A Mother’s Day Not About Me”
To the birth mother of my three children through adoption, wherever you are, I say thank you for allowing me to be their "other" mommy.
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