After adopting older children, these parents found that maintaining a family photo album was a useful tool to encourage bonding.
Being a foster parent is not for the faint of heart. Your heart swells, loves, breaks, and heals with each placement—and it is all, every moment of it, worth it.
From my own search for my roots through adopting older children from foster care, life has taught me to treasure my children’s biological connections while knowing that we don’t have to look alike to belong together.
A single mother who’s adopting a boy from foster care seeks advice on a challenging older child adoption adjustment. Parents who have adopted older children respond.
My daughter came to me at nine years old, so neither of us knows what she looked like as a baby, but walking these aisles is a way for us to recreate what we both lost.
For eight years, my wife and I watched our chances of having a baby evaporate. Then our eleven-year-old niece came to live with us, bringing with her a bittersweet deliverance.
"Moments after bringing our new puppy home, I understood that raising this dog would begin to create a history for our new daughter, would lodge her firmly within our family. A family pet conjures notions of family ties, of belonging."
At night, each of this mother's three children wanted to be with mom.
Could our loving home help this hurt, angry boy, or was it already too late?
"We visit and communicate directly with their foster family. These efforts help our sons build and sustain important relationships. They have already experienced too much loss and grief in their young lives."
"My daughter has greater difficulties with transitions than her friends who were born into their families. If we know a transition is coming, we prepare."
Mix one American couple, one preteen Russian boy, and one summer program…and what do you get? Family.
Adoptive Families sat down for a Q&A with attachment guru Deborah Gray. When will a parent know a bond is in place? How can working parents solidify their connection with a newly adopted child? We asked these questions and more.
My daughter's tenth birthday was the first birthday party she'd ever had. Here's how and why we decided to redo all the others.
When the first few weeks of parenthood were rocky, I found myself worrying: Did we adopt a child I'll never be able to love?
When I became the mother to two, and then three, I learned that you can't love all your children in the same way. But you can love them the same amount.
Before adopting an older child, I had never heard of post adoption depression. That's why it never crossed my mind when I had trouble attaching to my son.
One adoptive dad describes the unforgettable moments, when he met each of his four children but wasn’t yet their father.
Nia Vardalos describes her first meeting with the preschooler she adopted from U.S. foster care.
How do you nurture a child who repels nurturing? Start with these practical ideas.