There’s new hope for children in foster care as more and more families are considering foster adoption. At the end of FY 2015 (most recent statistics, reported June 2016), 111,820 children in the U.S. foster care system are waiting for permanent, loving families.
Here you’ll find resources for foster adoption, personal stories by families who adopted foster children, and links to national organizations to help you get started.
Foster Care Statistics
- There are approximately 62,378 children in the U.S. foster care system whose parental rights have been terminated and who are waiting to be adopted.
- In 2015, 53,549 children were adopted from foster care.
- Average age of waiting children: 7.6 years old.
- Race/ethnicity of waiting children: 43% Caucasian, 23% African-American, 22% Latino.
- Gender of waiting children: 53% male, 47% female.
- The average child in foster care waiting to be adopted goes through three different placements and has been in the system for 31.7 months.
- In 2015, more than 20,000 children aged out of foster care without a permanent family.
Foster Adoption: The Basics
Foster Adoption Personal Stories
- “The Second Half of My Life”: I’d been a hard-driving reporter and happily single. But now I was ready for something more.
- “Realizing That Adopting Older Children Was Right for Us”: At first, we envisioned welcoming a baby into our home. But we soon discovered that adopting older children was right for us.
- “Fostering Love”: The emotional risks were daunting. But foster adoption was still the best option for me.
- “’We Expected Just to Foster But Fell in Love with the Baby Who Became Our Daughter.’”: In this excerpt from her moving memoir, Another Mother, Sarah Gerstenzang relates her often painful, yet life-affirming journey as mother to a waiting child.
- “Foster Family to Forever Family: Helping Your Child Say Goodbye”: Strong connections to the past will allow your child to embrace the future.
- The Foster Adoption Series: A family chronicles the first-year joys of adopting two older girls from foster care, in this special six-part series.
PART 1: “Adopting Older Children Through Foster Care, Building Our Family”
PART 2: “Fost/Adopt Presents Us With a New Family Dynamic”
PART 3: “Settling In with Our New Daughters”
PART 4: “School Daze: Grappling with Our Daughter’s Learning Disability”
PART 5: “The Challenges and Rewards of Adopting a Foster Child, Parenting a Teenager”
PART 6: “Adoption Finalization — Finally!”
Making Older Child Adoption Work
- “Keys to Easing Adjustment”: Children do not want to be different from their peers. Giving them the skill to answer intrusive and embarrassing questions is critical.
- “A Healthy Attachment”: Whatever your child’s history, responsive parenting is key to a secure, loving relationship.
Great Books on Foster Adoption
- Telling the Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child: Making Sense of the Past by Betsy Keefer and Jayne E. Schooler
- A Guidebook for Raising Foster Children by Susan McNair Blatt, M.D.
- The Lost Children of Wilder: The Epic Struggle to Change Foster Care by Nina Bernstein
- Nobody’s Children: Abuse and Neglect, Foster Drift, and the Adoption Alternative by Elizabeth Bartholet
- Parenting the Hurt Child: Helping Adoptive Families Heal and Grow by Gregory Keck and Regina M. Kupecky