"At what age should we start letting our daughter take the lead in birth parent contact? I know that my daughter will be able to call her birth mom freely when she gets her own cellphone, so how do we step back responsibly?"
Growing Up Adopted: Parenting Preteens
Practical advice for parenting adopted preteens, from ages 10 through 12.
Parents share the questions their children have been asked by friends and classmates over the years, from being in an orphanage to whether they know their "real" parents.
Before the moody teen years, pre-adolescence can present its own challenges for parents. How should you respond to tweens’ questions about adoption or initiate conversation with a preteen who doesn’t seem eager to talk?
As preteens strive to define themselves, they must work adoption into the story.
How to help your middle schooler cope with curious peers.
"Mom, just drop us off at the corner!"
Families that expand their worlds to incorporate all kinds of cultures help their children develop strong racial identities.
Battles over homework can disrupt family life any evening of the school week. To lessen the trauma, parents frequently step in to help and occasionally step over the line. We asked Anita Pollic, a fourth grade teacher at Lebanon Christian School in Lebanon, Ohio, about this important topic.
Our only child is away this week. It's a first for us, 11 busy years after we triumphantly carried our daughter home from the adoption agency.
After adopting older children, these parents found that maintaining a family photo album was a useful tool to encourage bonding.
It can be a challenge to tear tweens away from their screens for some good old fashioned family bonding—until you try one of these activities!
Finding ways to "give back" as a family can be fun—and rewarding—for 'tweens and parents alike.
Overindulging our children works to their detriment. Learn whyand howto set limits for your preteen.
Each of your children has his own talents and abilities. How do you play fair?
How our children feel about a separation, and how we can help them cope.
Your preteen just wants to be cool. But how can he, when he's "different"?
It's not uncommon for preteens to pretend they weren't adopted, in an effort to not be different.
My middle schoolers often get teased about the way they look or the fact that they were adopted. What can they say to the teasers?
Sleepovers and play dates give our kids an intimate glimpse of life in a different family — and may prompt reflections and questions.
You used to be the coolest mom on the block–at least in the mind of your kid. Now she rolls her eyes at everything you do. What's up?