What If? Imagining Life in a Different Family

As adoptees reach their preteen years, they may start imagining what their life might have been if they stayed with their birth parents — or if they'd been adopted by the family down the street.

An adoptee imagining life in a different family, watching another mother serve spaghetti

Sleepovers and play dates give our kids an intimate glimpse of life in a different family — and may prompt reflections and questions.


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