“I need help dealing with unsupportive relatives who seem to think ‘adoption’ is a dirty word. How can I talk with them about adoption?”
Adoptive parents share whether their children have friends who are also adoptees and, if so, how the children met.
In many families, relationships come without exact names. While adoption highlighted this truth, it was already a given in my family—and maybe in yours, too?
From time to bond to a scrapbook from the orphanage to IKEA furniture (and assembly!), parents share their favorite gifts they received after adopting their child.
A prospective adoptive parent shares her feelings of sadness as the holidays approach while waiting to adopt. Parents who have been there offer advice.
Though society doesn’t know what to do with birth mothers, I knew I had a place with my son’s parents. At his second birthday party, I learned that I had a place with their family, too.
After you adopt a child from another culture, how do you adapt to life as a multicultural family?
As crazy as it sounds, the transition from being childless to becoming a parent has given me time I didn't have before.
I asked my family not to come to the hospital when she was born, then mourned their absence. Enter her birth relatives.
Planning a trip to see second cousins or great aunts? Before you travel, help your child and relatives expand their conceptions of family.
Adoptive parents pushing the mid-century mark are joining playgroups and diggingDora the Explorer. What's age got to do with it?
When you finally bring your child home, yes, you will feel elated. But many new adoptive moms and dads are surprised by the complex emotions that can sit on the outskirts of that joy.
Most parents look forward to sharing this time of the year with their children. But less is often more when it comes to holiday activities.
Sometimes teens feel left out of the in crowd. Here's how to help.
Family members, friends, and other parents can use our adoption experiences to broaden their children’s sphere of understanding.
A letter can deliver the news to loved ones in efficiently and affectionately. The key is to communicate how thrilled you are about adopting.
Adoptive parents are used to fielding questions about adoption — and most of us have an arsenal of replies to give the stranger in the checkout lane, but when it’s a family member making the rude remark, snappy comebacks don’t suffice.
You’re ready to adopt, but your spouse is reluctant. How can you get your “other half” (and family members) on board?
When I announced our adoption plans, I hoped for the same kind of excitement that pregnant women get. After all, the happiness we're expecting is the same.
Nothing brings out a tween's awkward side like a holiday family gathering. What can you do to help?