“We have always tried to make sure our internationally adopted son feels proud of his heritage. This year, when the class was writing about Thanksgiving, he asked if he could skip the assignment because people from his birth country do not celebrate Thanksgiving. I know I need to talk to him, but I’m not sure where to start.”
We asked our readers: How did you decide whether to introduce the topic of adoption at your child's school? What actions did you take, if any, to start explaining adoption to classmates or teachers? What advice do you have for other parents about how to best interact with your child's teachers?
As parents, how can you help make sure that your child and all the students at her school feel included and supported? Educate teachers about the five As!
Do you tell the teacher that your child was adopted at the start of a new school year? See parents' answers.
The family tree project can be a particularly tricky one for kids who are adopted. Here's how one family tackled the assignment.
How can you help your child answer adoption questions with confidence—and handle any queries that come your way?
The family tree assignment is a perfect opportunity to answer your child's questions about adoption.
Picky eating is common in children—and as a parent, it’s probably driving you crazy. Here, simple strategies (like using a cookie cutter!) help make sure your child gets enough to eat.
Families share their experiences with school and adoption issues.
Some children seem to know the rules naturally, others need a little help.
Questions from their peers get more complicated for our teens—and their peers' questions may reflect their own worries about adoption.
As I weighed diversity, academics, and other factors when choosing schools for my transracially adopted children, I perpetually second-guessed myself. But now that my kids are teens, I’m ready to trust their decisions.
Every Sunday evening, at the Gordon house, 10-year-old Kelly began complaining about something. Her pains ranged from stomachaches to sore throats. She said she felt too unwell to go to school the next day.
When my daughter Hope started kindergarten at her progressive school here in diverse New York City, we were both taken by surprise by the persistent, direct adoption questions she faced from classmates, questions that adults would be reluctant to pose.
Battles over homework can disrupt family life any evening of the school week. To lessen the trauma, parents frequently step in to help and occasionally step over the line. We asked Anita Pollic, a fourth grade teacher at Lebanon Christian School in Lebanon, Ohio, about this important topic.
Our families are well represented among a diverse national community of homeschoolers for lots of smart reasons.
Advice for parents from parents on how to navigate explaining adoption to the classroom during back to school season, and beyond!
When it comes to the way kids learn, one size definitely doesnt fit all.
“After my daughter told classmates that she was adopted, they responded that they ‘feel sorry’ for her. What can I do to help?”
School projects that focus on family or personal history can be challenging or painful for children who were adopted. Learn why, and what you can do to create a more inclusive environment for the entire class.