What I Wish I Had Known

Read the top eight insights about older child adoption that adoptive parents wished they had known beforehand.

Older child adoption stories and advice

After the initial adjustment stages, parents who adopt older kids often say, “Why didn’t someone tell me that?” Here are eight of the lessons families I’ve worked with over the past 25 years have learned.


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