Ask AF: Advice for Our "Ice Breaker" Meeting with a 10-Year-Old Boy?

A prospective mother seeks advice about what to ask or bring to her first meeting with the boy she might adopt from foster care. Fellow adoptive parents weigh in.

“We are adopting from foster care and have an ‘ice breaker’ meeting with a 10-year-old boy scheduled for tomorrow. I’m super nervous. Can anyone share advice about forging a connection?”


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