"Does anyone else feel jealous, weepy, depressed, and even a bit angry when friends or family members share the joyous news that they're pregnant? I am truly thankful for my daughter, adopted five years ago, but at the same time, their news reminds me of how little control I have over growing our family."
Parents Share: Birth Sibling Connections
We asked "Does your child have a birth sibling who lives with another adoptive family?" Parents respond and explain how they keep in touch (or why contact isn't possible).
Ask AF: Worried My Daughter Will Think Her Birth Mom Is More “Fun”
"My nine-year-old has been asking me about her birth mother. I was able to find her on social media, but I’m worried about sharing the photos I found."
Ask AF: Should We Try to Adopt Our Children’s Biological Sibling?
"Our children have a younger sibling in a different foster home. Should we fight to get custody of this child, whom we're told has a strong bond with her foster parents and foster siblings, or leave things be?"
“The Fine Line Between Letting Go and Being Let Go”
I adopted my son as he was entering his teen years, and now, too soon, I have seen him off to college. How will his still tenuous attachment play out when I’m no longer a constant, physical presence in his life?
Parents Share: Deciding What Age Child to Adopt
From newborns to teens to sibling groups, adoptive parents share the thought process behind their age preferences when adopting.
“Home Safe Every Night”
Isaac is 14 years old, but he’s six feet tall and almost two hundred pounds. He’s also black. He hasn’t been a discipline problem since the day he came home, but someone who doesn’t know him could see him as a threat. So what was I to do on a recent evening when he asked to bike home alone in the dark?
How to Raise a Bounce-Back Kid
Most kids are born to rebound whatever their start in life. Research shows that parents can help.
Raising a Child Who Loves Reading
Parents know that books are educational, but how do they make them fun for kids while building reading skills? Start with these three titles.
How Parents Can Encourage Language Skills
About 10% of children have speech and language difficulties. Help your child develop these skills with these five tips.
How Did You Prepare Your First Child for a Sibling?
We asked our readers how they introduced the idea of a second child to their first. Here's what they shared for each age group.
Hosting Productive Play Dates
A step-by-step plan to help adoptive parents plan successful outings for children and their friends.
How Adoption Grew Secret
Our kids deserve to know who their people were.
An Overview of Heritage Travel
Heritage travel can help your child understand her birth culture, and her origin story. Plan a trip that will work for your family by answering these questions.
“Heart’s Content”
A trip to the doctor's office reminds me of the love inside my son's perfect heart.
Handling Teenage Meltdowns
Your child may see you as less understanding than his birth parents might be. Here's how to cope with teenage temper tantrums.
Support Groups for Adoptive Parents and Families
Adoptees and their families need help and guidance throughout their lives. Support groups can help provide that.
Ask AF: How to Help Our Teen Through Depression?
"Our 17-year-old is experiencing depression and has been smoking pot. She told us she sees her depression as connected to adoption, which surprised us, because we've always talked openly about adoption. How can we help her?"
“Finally Father’s Day”
I became a dad at age 50, and it changed my life in ways I never could have expected. It was the greatest gift.
“Feeling Like Family”
After the divorce, my family felt incomplete. To find the missing piece, I traveled to a Russian orphanage, thousands of miles away.