Slipping Slowly Into Parenthood

As the wait for our referral from China stretched on, I took comfort in breaking my own rules.

Waiting for a referral can feel like it takes forever

I bought that stuffed animal — and that book, and that baby hat — in a moment of weakness. But as the wait stretched on, I realized those slip-ups are what kept me going.


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