It's not that she doesn't care, it's that life takes twists and turns.
A Death in the Family
As children get older, they come to understand that everyone experiences loss.
Relatives Say the Strangest Things
Is your extended family less than savvy about adoption? Here's how to handle it.
Adoption Announcements
Families who've waited so long for a child are eager to share the news. Families and experts weigh in on language to use and when to send announcements.
The Benefits of Adoption Playgroups
An adoption playgroup can be a wonderful source of support for children as well as parents.
The Fantasy Parent
Ever heard, "My real mother wouldn't make me do that"? Don't despair. All kids, adopted or not, conjure a fantasy parent from time to time.
Orphan Lit
From Anne of Green Gables to Harry Potter, orphans are a staple of children's literature. Here's how to help your child make sense of it all.
Teens, Drinking, and Drugs
It's a national issue. Is your child at risk?
A Letter to Your Child’s Teacher
Even a teacher sensitive to adoption may benefit from having words to say.
Family Night
Getting everyone together once a week can be invaluable for family unity.
When Your Kid Clams Up
If your preteen is suddenly silent about adoption, look for "reachable" moments.
“How Do I Manage as a Single Mother?”
Yes, solo parenting is hard work. But the freedom is good, too.
Telling the Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child
In this excerpt from her book, Jayne Schooler offers adoptive parents tools for helping their children make sense of the past.
Your Baby’s Memory Book
Create a simple story for your young child to learn and grow with.
The Land of Make-Believe
Fantasy play is your preschooler's safe arena to learn about life — and work things out.
Encouraging Your Child to Find a Passion
When kids find something they love and stick with it, they find their place in the world.
“Changing My Name to Mom”
As she prepares for the adoption of her third child, the author knows it is not just she who must be ready, but also the 9-year-old girl she's fallen in love with.
Setting Clear Limits for Kids
If you're feeling squeamish about disciplining your child, remind yourself why you must.
Ask AF: An Invasive Assignment
An adoptive parent asks how to react to her middle schooler's assignment to write a report about his birth. Adoption at school expert Lansing Wood offers guidance on speaking with the teacher.
Is Your Child Ready for School?
She has her backpack, pencils, and notebook. But does she know how to field adoption questions that might come her way?