Openness in adoption should begin long before the expectant mother and adoptive family navigate ongoing contact. An agency and an attorney discuss best practices for working with prospective birth parents.
“My Endless Summer of Waiting”
This was to have been my first summer as a mom. Instead, we're waiting for the clearing of one final hurdle.
“Great Non-Expectations”
The intense motherly love that washed over me after Jack's adoption was a shock to everyone — especially me.
Ask AF: Keeping a Child’s Immunizations on Track
Answers to your parenting questions.
Ask AF: Different Levels of Contact
Our six-year-old son has contact with his birth family. our four-year-old daughter was abandoned at the hospital at birth. After a recent meeting with our son's birth family, our daughter asked when she can meet her birth family. Should we stop taking her with us on these visits? Is it just confusing her?
One Big, Happy Family
Your beloved pet may be in for a shock when your baby arrives. How can you help him accept your new addition?
When Kids Face Racism at School
Racial bullying is especially harmful. Here are some strategies to help your child cope and respond to racial teasing.
“What Is Family?”
Being an adoptive parent begs the question, "what makes a family?" How I helped others to understand that my son by adoption is simply my son.
“From Heartbreak to Hope”
When our first adoption match fell through, we were devastated.
Finding an Expectant Mother Match
How you go about searching for your child’s birth mother will depend on what you feel comfortable with.
Ask AF: Assuming Friends Were Adopted
Answers to your parenting questions.
View the Adoption at School Webinar Replay
View the replay of the webinar "Adoption at School," with Brooke Randolph, LMHC, to learn about how adoption may come up in your child's classroom, and how parents can talk to teachers and prepare their child to respond.
Ask AF: How Do We Tell Our Teen Tough Information?
Our daughter's birth mother committed suicide several years ago. We've never told our daughter, who's now 13 and in a rebellious phase. I just read something that said you should tell your children whatever you know about their adoptions before the teen years, but we can't go back in time to do so. Should we tell her now, or wait until she's older?
Ask AF: Acting Out After Birth Mother Visits
Answers to your parenting questions.
Ask AF: When Contact Seems Risky
Answers to your parenting questions.
Ask AF: What’s Typical in Adoption Agency Contact?
Answers to your parenting questions.
Ask AF: Adopting an Acquaintance’s Baby
Answers to your parenting questions.
Ask AF: Validating a Child’s Past
Answers to your parenting questions.
Relating to Relatives
There's much parents can do to help their teens feel they belong within the larger family network.
Telling Your Family’s Story
Sure, celebrations and rituals are important to have in adoptive families, but so are ways to preserve and keep these memories alive.