As I weighed diversity, academics, and other factors when choosing schools for my transracially adopted children, I perpetually second-guessed myself. But now that my kids are teens, I’m ready to trust their decisions.
A parent reaches out for help after taunting at school left her daughter feeling shaken to the core and that she doesn’t belong anywhere. An adult adoptee and transracial adoption expert offers advice.
Kids need to be able to find characters who look like them in the books on their shelves. Here are some of our favorites that provide that powerful affirmation.
An adult adoptee discusses ‘the Talk’—what white parents who adopt Black children must tell them about racism, interacting with the police, and staying safe.
This poetic novel features a transracial adoptee protagonist as he explores his identity and seeks answers about his past in an unfamiliar city. Accompanying the excerpt is a Q&A with the author, Matthew Salesses.
After you adopt a child from another culture, how do you adapt to life as a multicultural family?
Color blindness may not be the best approach for transracial families, explains a transracial parenting expert.
As Latino parents, we know firsthand the discrimination our children will face.
Our society has gotten to the point where most people can agree that overt racism is wrong. Few would argue that segregation or using a racial slur is acceptable. But many more subtle forms of racism persist. Here's how to combat them.
Racism exists, and it's our job as parents to talk about it with our kids. Here's an age-by-age guide to handling those conversations.
When your family includes biological and adopted children, how do you make sure everyone feels included?
When my son was five months old, friends predicted he would be a good student — probably a mathematician.
What started off as a fun day on the courts left my heart hurting for my two brown boys, and the kids who excluded them.
It's not easy to teach your child that people may fear him because of the color of his skin—but it's something parents through transracial adoption must do.
My wife and I were nervous the first Sunday we attended an African-American church. Would they welcome us? Would they stare? We should have had faith.
Bringing up race and racism to your kid can be tough — but it should be done sooner rather than later.
A simple hairstyle was not so simple for a dance class full of little girls with beautiful heads of black hair.
Preschoolers are starting to notice racial differences. Adoptive parents have a responsibility to talk about them.
If we're white, we experience many benefits of unearned status because we're "the norm." But adoptive families are not considered the norm. Now what?
Sometimes teens feel left out of the in crowd. Here's how to help.