Adoption plans for children are made for a variety of reasons, including poverty, single-parent households, previous abuse and neglect, maternal physical and mental illness, drug and alcohol abuse (both prior to and after birth), and legal regulations of a given country. These reasons become factors in a child’s medical, developmental, and psychological future. That’s why it’s important to seek and understand a pre-adoption medical review when accepting an adoption referral. A review will address your concerns about the health of a child and help you give your child the best care.
Although many families focus on the country of a child’s birth in assessing health and development, this factor is not as important as the individual situation of a given child. Premature birth, poor prenatal nutrition, and living in an orphanage all play into the present and future health of a child. Families adopting outside the United States need to realize that children available for adoption overseas may have the same risk factors as children adopted from our own foster-care system.
What You’ll Get
Medical information that accompanies adoption referrals varies in depth, content, and accuracy.
- Domestic newborns: Parents about to adopt should receive information about prenatal care and diseases, and any blood testing the birthmother undergoes prior to delivery, including for hepatitis B, HIV, and syphilis.
- Older children: Whether adopted privately or from foster care, they should have medical records that include birth history, immunizations and previous health care, prenatal information, if available. You may also gain developmental information through a child’s preventive health care records. For example, growth measurements (weight, length, and head circumference) should be plotted on standard North American growth charts. Seek any information about hospitalizations, surgeries, medications, and allergies, as well.
- International adoptions: Parents will find a variety of information available, depending on where they adopt from. Some countries provide only birth information (height, weight, general health, and so on), particularly for infant referrals. Other countries may offer more detailed information, including medical evaluations, developmental information, even birth-family history of medical disorders. Photos or videos may be available for children. Look for assessment of growth points, evaluating patterns of growth as well as the child’s size. Be aware that medical terminology from some countries may be unfamiliar, even confusing, to many U.S. physicians.
What to Watch For
- Head size: Most physicians preparing pre-adoption referrals will pay careful attention to information about the size of a child’s head. A small head (microcephaly) may suggest malnutrition, fetal alcohol exposure, or a birth defect, either gene-tic or resulting from the birth process.
- Growth rate: Understand that children who have lived in institutional care are at increased risk for growth delay. Adoption physicians agree that a child will typically lose one month of growth for every three months in an orphanage. With mild malnutrition, the child may be smaller than his peers, but his head size should be normal.
- Fetal Alcohol Syndrome: Photos and/or videos of all children (not just those from Russia and Eastern Europe) should be assessed for possible Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. Signs of this disorder include growth delay, developmental delay, and mental health problems. Whenever possible (when videos are available, for example), language should be assessed, particularly to rule out hearing disorders. A child should also be assessed for unusual stiffness (increase in muscle tone) and/or asymmetry in the way she uses her body.
- Other diagnoses: Specific medical diagnoses, such as cleft lip and palate, heart defects, and limb abnormalities, should be identified with a review of pertinent medical records. The availability and accuracy of such records varies depending upon the child’s birth country. Sometimes additional information can be requested, to give more data about an identified special need, but this is not always available.
- Developmental Milestones: Development should be assessed closely, using written information, as well as pictures and videos. Developmental milestones should coincide with a child’s growth, as recorded on a growth chart. For example, a 1-year-old child the size of a 9-month-old should be at the 9-month level developmentally. Extreme delays may indicate long-term challenges.
- Social skills: Particular attention should be paid to a child’s social interactions and language skills, especially if a video is available. A video can reflect only moments in a child’s life, but it may demonstrate how a child responds to familiar adults and children. Behaviors such as seeking affection, responding to verbal commands, and looking for solace when upset are important in assessing how a child may attach to a new family.
Putting it Together
Prospective adoptive parents often seek out a physician with experience in adoption and foster-care medicine who will review medical-referral information to determine what other (if any) information is needed to make an informed decision. Many such physicians are members of the American Academy of Pediatrics Section on Adoption and Foster Care, and are available for consultation before you travel.
Even with the most complete medical referral, there are still uncertainties ahead. While an objective review of the health information will help you decide whether you are able to provide a good home for a child, adoption is ultimately a leap of faith. Children who come with a past that may influence their future will do best in a loving home prepared to meet their challenges.