"We Always Called You Jason"

When I started my search, I only expected to find my birth mother — if that. The eccentric grandmother I got was just a bonus.

Matthew and his mother after his search was complete

Fantasizing about my birth parents, I never dreamed my strongest link to the past would be through a flinty grandmother.


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