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A child this young could probably deal with a name change

The Name Game

Although a baby as young as seven months reacts when called by name, a name change isn't a significant issue until age two.

Adoption expert Lois Melina on talking with adopted children about unknown birth family information

The Choices We Make

Choosing age, race, and even gender is sometimes seen as the perk of adoption. Be careful not to attach expectations to these selections.

A sign post pointing in different directions, representing choice between adoption and surrogacy

“Becoming an Intended Parent”

Deciding on gestational surrogacy and navigating the complex process involves listening to your heart and your brain at the right times.

advocating for open adoption

“Open Minds, Open Hearts”

Five years ago, my husband Pat and I knew nothing about open adoption. Today, we are staunch advocates of it and the very proud parents of two beautiful children who came home to us through open adoption. The journey to our children and to lovingly accept open adoption, however, was not an easy one. We learned that having an open mind was the key to having an open heart.

prospective birth mother

“How I Handled Calls from Prospective Birth Mothers”

Our advertising was placed, our adoption profile was ready to go, and it was only a matter of time before our 800-line started ringing with calls from expectant mothers. Yikes! Mercifully, I was prepared, thanks to the expertise of my adoption attorney, adoption consultant, and other adoptive parents. Here’s what I learned:

Family living a healthy lifestyle

A Long, Healthy Life

We don't know our child's medical history. What can we do to keep her healthy regardless?

A father and daughter, with a unique perspective on adoption

“What We Couldn’t Learn Before Adopting”

My wife and I learned a lot from reading, but there were some things not discussed in the books we read. So from one father to another, from one parent to another, here's my notebook of thoughts after our adoption.

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