Bruce had been a cheerful, outgoing child who had many friends. But when he turned 15, his parents noticed a change in him. He seemed more withdrawn and less gregarious. One day, when Bruce and his mother, Karen, were driving home from school, he seemed particularly down. When Karen asked him what was wrong, he said, "I'm not who you think I am."
Adopted persons tend to experience seven core issues related to their adoption. Discussions of adoption over the years have often overlooked the pain and struggles of adoptees, but identifying these core issues and helping children integrate them as they grow validates their experiences, decreasing feelings of being different and isolated.
For an overview of the average cost of a U.S. foster adoption, see the categories below. Don't forget that the cost of adoption will be offset by the federal adoption tax credit (unless your income exceeds federal limitations) so make sure to keep detailed records of fees and payments during your adoption process.
Encourage discussion — and a lifelong love for reading — with these adoption-themed books.
Your teen probably spends a lot of time thinking (or fantasizing) about her birth mother. Here's how to get some of those thoughts out in the open.
The fees are minimal to non-existent, wait times can be shorter than in private or international adoption, and there are many younger children, toddlers, and even infants available for adoption. In many cases, subsidies are available for the childs living expenses and healthcare, even after the adoption is completed.
Only children sometimes get a bad rap. But most grow up to be just fine.
Everything you need to ask before picking a legal professional to handle your adoption.
Even preschoolers can get stressed by holidays. A few simple games and activities can ward off the meltdowns.
Deciding on an adoption agency can be an organizational challenge. Read up on the best questions to ask before making your choice.
The adoption timeline can vary dramatically, depending your chosen route. This general overview explains a typical adoption schedule, requirements at each step, and common expenses.
At first, we envisioned welcoming a baby into our home. But we soon discovered that adopting older children was right for us.
Your beloved child is home! You should be joyful, happy, ecstatic. But instead you're tired, frustrated, and overwhelmed. What's happening?
The path to adopting a child for many involves becoming a foster parent first. Learn about the risks, rewards, and responsibilities of caring for children in the U.S. foster care system.
The term "Gotcha Day" has ardent fans and strong detractors in the adoption community. We asked Adoptive Families readers how they feel about it, and whether they use the term in their family. Here's what you said.
Answers to your parenting questions.
Answers to your parenting questions.
Language difficulties affect children from all backgrounds and walks of life. Here's what to look out for.
Preschoolers love stories. Listen carefully and you might learn a thing or two.
Foster adoption was right for these three families. Read their stories to find out why.
