Fighting Words

In the heat of an argument, your teen screams she would rather live with her birth parents. Here's how to handle it.

Adopted teens can use birth parents as a weapon when they're upset

When they’re angry at us, teens may bring up the subject of birth parents. Here’s how to answer calmly.


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