"Lost Daughter"

Declining a referral is never easy. Here, one mother shares her story of the daughter that almost was.

A nature scene in China, representing the mixed emotions of declining a referral in adoption

When we got our referral, we accepted it with joy. Soon after, however, we realized something wasn’t right.


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