Arthur Gets an “A” for AdoptionA new, two-part story on the PBS show hits all the right notes.by Susan Avery
 Talk about adoption or watch wrestling? It’s a no-brainer for “Binky Barnes,” the lovably dim-witted character on Arthur, the long-running PBS cartoon, who finds out that his parents will be adopting a baby from China. He chooses wrestling, and his detached reaction caused concern for his parents—and this reviewer.
Much to my surprise, and delight, the concern was short-lived. The executive producer of Arthur, and his team, did everything right this time. The two episodes on adoption, airing this fall, “Big Brother Binky, Parts I and II,” get the facts right and, equally important, the words and emotions.
Once Mom and Dad explain adoption, Binky is as excited as they are. He joins them on the year-long adoption roller-coaster, and has his own moments of insecurity and jealousy. The boy’s beloved game room becomes his new sister’s bedroom; his mom sews a bai jia bei, a “quilt of 100 wishes,” which is a tradition in Northern China (and something he never had). And right before the big day, he needs the dreaded travel immunizations. “This baby better be worth it,” he mutters, expressing a common sentiment among older siblings-in-waiting.
“The conversations with Adoptive Families had us looking at adoption more carefully. We came up with a story line that felt true to the subject.”
The episodes are a must-watch. Executive producer Pierre Valette put two years of thought and research into these shows, talking to those in the PBS family who’ve adopted or who were adopted. To his credit, Valette also consulted adoption experts, to assure that the story line was both authentic and inoffensive, something that didn’t happen a few years ago. In that misstep, an Arthur episode titled “Dear Adil,” Arthur finds a box of his father’s childhood letters from a foreign penpal. As he reads them, D.W., his four-year-old sister, walks into the room. “Are those from your real parents?” she blurts.
At the time, PBS dismissed concerns from adoptive parents, saying they saw no problem with such a remark. After several discussions with the editors of Adoptive Families, however, Valette understood, and promised to make it right by treating adoption more thoughtfully in the future.
“The conversations with Adoptive Families definitely had us looking at adoption more carefully,” he said recently, in his office at WGBH in Boston. “We did a lot of research and came up with a story line that felt true to the subject and true to the characters, as well. Binky is kind of tough on the outside but very sensitive.”
After putting up with days, and nights, of baby Mei Lin’s crying, Binky cracks in Part II. The boy announces to his parents that his sister is not happy and wants to return to her real home. Scriptwriters to the rescue: “This is her real home,” say her parents. “When we adopted her, we became her family forever.” With Binky set straight, the family goes out for Chinese food, joined by Arthur and his family. Kate, Arthur’s little sister, engages in baby talk with Mei Lin, which, when translated, is a light-hearted venting session about their older brothers.
So we became Arthur fans forever. Thanks to Valette and his team for keeping it real.
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“Big Brother Binky” will air on PBS stations nationwide in September. Check your local listings. |
SUSAN AVERY is an adoptive mother and the Kids Editor at New York magazine.
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Comments
Dear Executive producers, for Big brother Binky, I am really exited to watch, Big Brother Binky. This article I read, really fills me in in what is going to happen. It is great that Binky's parents tell Binky about adoption. I hope Binky dose not get Brutish with his little sister. I think Binky's parents should be on the lookout, that Binky dose-not send his sister back to China. I love hearing about you. Love, Mila. Ps., What kind of animal is, Mei Lin?
Posted by: Mila Fernandez! at 8:34am Aug 30
I would love to know if these episodes will become available on DVD after they air. It sounds like they will become a wonderful addition to our "adoption" library.
Posted by: Monica at 6:06pm Sep 1
This will be exciting for all of the family who have children adopted from other countries as well as China. We are all looking forward to the airing of this special edition Arthur. Please mention when exactly it will be aired in the Boston/NH area on Channel 2. Thanks a mill. Laurie
Posted by: Laurie at 12:07pm Sep 3
I am an adoptive mother of an almost 8 year old precious Chinese girl. We adopted her when she was 8 months old. We happened to catch the Binky episode this morning before going to work and school. We both loved it and it brought back many happy memories for me (with a few tears)and it was great for her to watch, she loved it! I couldn;'t believe the part when on the plane coming home, Binky's dad was bouncing Mei Lin on his lap to help calm her when she was crying - that was the exact same thing my husband did with Emma on our trip home, as she cried a lot. We tell her that story a lot and she loves it, so it was extra special when she saw that happening in this wonderful episode! Can't wait to buy it on dvd!
Posted by: Sandy at 7:02pm Sep 7
After passing the word to everyone I know, I missed it. Anyone know when it will air again???????
Posted by: Laura at 8:44pm Sep 11
My 4 year old son and I watched the Binky episode with great interest since we just got back from visiting our little girl in Guatemala. He could really relate to the crying jags Mei Lin had and the frustration on the part of Binky to want to be the one to console her. I thought the paperwork and the waiting aspects of the adoption process were handled very well - and giving Binky a role in the process was a great idea. I also thought Binky's mixed feelings about his little sister were very realistic and something my child and other children receiving a new member to the family could easily relate to. Great job on the part of the Arthur writers.
Posted by: Laura H. at 8:36am Sep 12
My daughter was watching this (Part 2 actually, I now realize) without my knowing the content. My husband called my attention to it. While my daughter did not really talk about it, she watched intently (She watches Arthur most days, so she may have seen Part 1, too). And I know I cheered (out loud) when Binky's parents told him "...we became her family forever." Three cheers for the producers!
Posted by: Polly at 9:58am Sep 12
I too would be interested in purchasing the DVD when it comes out as I have 3 adopted children. If anyone would notify me when it is released and when it is being shown on PBS in the Chicagoland Suburbs, plmk. Blessings and Thanks! Linda
Posted by: Linda Trost at 9:18am Oct 8
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