How to make sure your child feels good about being adopted.
Talking About Adoption with Children
Children who joined their families through adoption need to know how adoption works, to feel free to ask questions (and get honest answers), and to learn any details you know about their birth families. Find talking tips below.
Confronting your own fears is the first step toward helping your child deal with hers.
Let your child know you are open to talking about her birth family.
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Janis Cooke Newman asks herself, “Am I overdoing this adoption thing?”
Recently, my 7-year-old has been asking me rather vague questions, such as, “Where am I?” or “Where do I belong?” I don’t want to attribute every element of his development to adoption — but could that be behind these questions?
When your child reaches his preteen years, he may deny his adoption to fit in with peers. Ronny Diamond explains how parents can cope.
Answers to your parenting questions.
If your child is developmentally delayed, you may wonder what adoption language is appropriate for him. Ronny Diamond answers.
Preteens need a safe place to explore adoption questions.
When we judge our children’s birth parents, we often judge our children.
Some adopted children may have some sort of separation anxiety, and need constant reassurance that you are indeed their “forever parents,” advises Joni Mantell, LCSW.