"What No One Told Me"

Before we had embarked on our adoption journey, I wish someone had told me how difficult our relationship with our child's birth mother was going to be.

Two women navigating difficult relationships with birth mothers

When we first met our child’s birth mother, we didn’t know what to talk about and what not to talk about, what might upset her or what she may or may not want to know about her child’s future with us.


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